Relationships are beautiful, amazing, and absolutely crazy and mindboggling at the same time. There is probably no perfect relationship and almost no sure shot way to ensure that your relationship is going to last a lifetime. Yet, there are ways you can at least keep it healthy and hope for the best. But, first, let’s check out some pretty crazy statistics!
If you have survived the first Monday of December or the spring break then you are probably safe from having a break up in a long time. (source: A PLUS)
That sounds crazy, right? Here’s another one.
26% females and 28% males in the US admitted to breaking up simply because they lost interest! (source: A PLUS)
Well, relationships are serious business. Even though 87% couples are in a good relationship with almost half of them having no argument at all, 42% marriages are ending in divorce while 34% marriages are ending even before the completion of 20 years.
Something is seriously wrong. It seems we are incapable of holding a steady and healthy relationship for long, even after marriage, under most circumstances. Let’s check out how not to end up like one of these unfortunate souls.
The path towards a healthy relationship
Even though it might sound a little tricky, the key to having a healthy relationship isn’t too complex.
1. Maintain clear communication
Every relationship needs clear communication. It prevents misunderstandings and regrets from cropping up. Please remember, we human beings are not mind-readers. Most of us are even not too good at reading clear signals. It is better to come out clean rather than waiting for your partner to figure out what he/she did wrong. And, learn to listen. It’s as much important.
2. Maintain healthy boundaries
Your partner isn’t your personal property. Every person has his/her personal space. Do not encroach. It will only make your relationship turn toxic. Don’t make your partner feel suffocated. The relationship should be a place where he/she feels like growing rather than being tied down and constricted.
3. Talk about physical intimacy
Yes, physical intimacy is important in a relationship. Your partner needs to feel satisfied. Do not behave like the ‘know it all’ snob. Every human body is different and the physical needs and desires vary. Make sure you understand what your partner is responding to during your intimate moments and make it a point to discuss his/her needs and desires. Also, do not fake orgasm. If you do not like something your partner is doing, tell it to him/her. That’s how you can ensure healthy sex life.
4. Give importance to emotional needs
Relationship isn’t all about staying together and sex. Emotional needs are as much important and one of the most important parts of building a healthy relationship. Your partner needs you emotionally. Make sure you are available. Emotional detachment has no excuse in a relationship.
5. Spice it up at times
No one likes a boring and monotonous life. Surprises are beautiful and much appreciated in a relationship. Small gestures can mean a lot to your partner. It shows that you value the person. It also brings freshness to the relationship. You are never too old to show your love!
6. Always be truthful
Unless it’s some surprise you are planning, do not lie at any cost. Trust is the base of any healthy relationship and once broken, a lifetime can fall short to rebuild it.
Bonus
Compliment your partner and do not forget to take care of your looks too. After all, your partner will also wish to be seen with someone attractive. Why not make him/her feel happy and lucky!
